How to Choose the Right Wedding Photographer in Melbourne
5 Things You Might Not Realise You’re Looking For
Choosing a wedding photographer in Melbourne can feel like a full-time job.
You open Instagram, search “Melbourne wedding photographer,” and suddenly you’re hit with hundreds of profiles, all showing beautiful photos, all claiming to be “natural,” “documentary,” or “editorial.” And before long, it all starts to blur together.
So how do you know who’s actually the right fit?
Here’s the truth: it’s not just about finding someone who takes pretty pictures (though, yes, that part matters too). It’s about finding someone who understands what you care about. Someone you trust. Someone who’s going to show up and truly capture the day in a way that feels honest, intentional, and real.
Here’s what I’ve learned, after years of shooting weddings across Melbourne and beyond:
These are the five things couples actually care about, even if they don’t realise it yet.
1. There Are Too Many Options and Not Enough Clarity
Let’s be honest: Melbourne is full of talented photographers.
But it’s also full of buzzwords and beautiful grids with no real context. And when you’re scrolling through profile after profile, it’s hard to know what actually sets someone apart.
My advice? Look past the surface. Read the captions. Watch their Reels. Find someone whose voice feels like a fit, not just their editing style.
You’re not just hiring someone to take nice photos. You’re inviting someone into one of the most personal, emotional, and sacred days of your life.
Make sure it’s someone you feel a connection with, someone who actually sees you.
2. You’re Not Just Investing in Photos, You’re Investing in Experience
Let’s talk about money.
I know photography is one of the biggest wedding investments you’ll make, and you want to get it right. But here’s the thing, it’s not just about what’s included in the package. It’s about the experience you’ll get from enquiry to album.
The right photographer will:
- Help you feel calm and confident on the day
- Know when to give direction and when to disappear
- Deliver a gallery that makes you feel every single moment again
At Ebb and Flow Photography, all of my Melbourne wedding packages are crafted with care, and always include at least 6 hours of coverage, because your story deserves to be told fully, not rushed.
3. You Don’t Need to Know Your “Style”, You Just Need to Know What Feels Like You
You don’t need to know if you’re “editorial” or “documentary” or “light and airy with cinematic depth and tonal romance.”
Honestly? Most of that language is for other photographers.
What matters is this:
Do you want your photos to feel real? Do you want to look at them and go, “That’s so us”?
That’s what I focus on.
My style is emotive, true-to-tone, and timeless rooted in storytelling and tailored to each couple.
Because this day isn’t about a trend. It’s about your marriage.
4. Comfort Matters More Than You Think
So many couples tell me they’re nervous about being photographed.
They worry about looking stiff, feeling awkward, or being “bad in front of the camera.”
Here’s the good news:
It’s not your job to perform. It’s mine to help you feel at ease.
I’m unobtrusive, calm, and (according to most of my couples) feel like a friend with a camera. I get to know you in the lead-up to your day so that, by the time I show up, I already know what matters most to you — and how to make you feel comfortable in front of the lens.
5. You Want To Know The Day Will Be Captured, Even The Bits You Miss
Your wedding day moves fast.
You’ll blink and hours will pass. There will be little moments happening all around you, your grandma laughing at the speeches, your best friends tearing up at your vows, your flower girl clapping when you kiss.
The right photographer isn’t just documenting what’s posed, they’re watching everything else too.
That’s where I come in.
I’m always watching. Always noticing.
Not just what it looked like, but what it felt like.
Final Thoughts: It’s Not Just About Photos
Choosing a Melbourne wedding photographer is about choosing someone who’ll honour your story.
At Ebb and Flow Photography, I’m here to do exactly that, through timeless imagery, genuine connection, and a deep belief in the beauty and meaning of marriage.
If you’re looking for someone who’ll capture your day with care, intention, and a little bit of magic, I’d be honoured to connect.
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